Sure I might be stealing this title or at least some of it from other blogs but the truth remains..We are young, hot, and broke. I bought shoes at Payless recently and felt bad that I spend $41. N liked them so that's swell. I wanted to slap the sales kid upside the head when he told me the price. Hello? Pay less! I have bills!!!
The good news is ..I have come to terms with my hotness being at Home Depot as long as he can comes to terms with his hotness being at Home Goods five minutes later. I think this is what people call compromise..hey at least my store is a discount store!
This is a story of two people plus a huge family and friends who get together and drive each other crazy. Also the story of how the first few years? months? days? can be a wild sometimes very boring ride. See what I learn through my journey with Nick.
Monday, October 18, 2010
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Wow October
Since it's October, we should only be thinking in fall colors, hence this print. I hope all are doing well. Well since it's been a few weeks since my last entry, let me say sorry and I will try my best to keep all 3 of you entertained.
Not going to lie to you guys, I am stressed. I have wife stress. Yes, I will coin that phrase!!! I am going to school for social work and want to give good advice but get stuck when it's so close to home. AT HOME. I think that when your job gets in your way, your spouse should be able to support your emotions any which way they can. I feel as though I am lacking in doing that for N. I wish there were back pocket skills (ah, a phrase us in the field know) that help when bosses just can't seem to get it right. We all have our turns in the gutter at work when we feel that we should go play lotto and hope it all turns out fine. We all also have our turns when that idea does NOT turn into anything. I called the best friend and literally asked "how are you married, like how, when times are tough..do you do it?" She said they simply say to each other that people suck and everyone knows it. This was ok advice for the time but wish that I had my own little henchman to go knock some sense into those that are making N's life hard. That was easier than therapy right?
Not going to lie to you guys, I am stressed. I have wife stress. Yes, I will coin that phrase!!! I am going to school for social work and want to give good advice but get stuck when it's so close to home. AT HOME. I think that when your job gets in your way, your spouse should be able to support your emotions any which way they can. I feel as though I am lacking in doing that for N. I wish there were back pocket skills (ah, a phrase us in the field know) that help when bosses just can't seem to get it right. We all have our turns in the gutter at work when we feel that we should go play lotto and hope it all turns out fine. We all also have our turns when that idea does NOT turn into anything. I called the best friend and literally asked "how are you married, like how, when times are tough..do you do it?" She said they simply say to each other that people suck and everyone knows it. This was ok advice for the time but wish that I had my own little henchman to go knock some sense into those that are making N's life hard. That was easier than therapy right?
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